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Changing the facts
And the second half of your post, trabuquera? I found that equally odd. Of course it's complicated: it's a court case. Are you really saying that learning difficulties or, ooh, mental health issues, or having been in care or anything else might make the alleged crime more understandable or more forgivable? And are you saying that suggesting that prior sexual experience in the child makes any subsequent sexual assault visited on the child somehow more understandable? And are you suggesting that the defence has no other manner of showing us mitigating circumstances than to openly declare the child culpable in her own assault, because she was out to get the bloke in some way?
I'm trying very hard, in this ongoing open debate we seem to have embarked upon, to stay calm and open minded, to remain objective and not bring any of my own stuff into the picture. But your post seems to me to be part of the problem: "There must be a jolly good reason for men to behave as they do. There must be a jolly good reason for the defence to attack the child in this way."
Am I being oversensitive? Maybe you need to look at what you said and why you said it.
By the way, I am not saying it's open and shut, black and white, I'm right you're wrong. I'm saying that we need to really get to grips with what's actually going on, and how we enable this shit - all of us - if we have any hope of changing it.
I'm trying very hard, in this ongoing open debate we seem to have embarked upon, to stay calm and open minded, to remain objective and not bring any of my own stuff into the picture. But your post seems to me to be part of the problem: "There must be a jolly good reason for men to behave as they do. There must be a jolly good reason for the defence to attack the child in this way."
Am I being oversensitive? Maybe you need to look at what you said and why you said it.
By the way, I am not saying it's open and shut, black and white, I'm right you're wrong. I'm saying that we need to really get to grips with what's actually going on, and how we enable this shit - all of us - if we have any hope of changing it.